Girl Romance
I once experimented with girl romance. You could call it a phase, just a couple weeks of my life when I met this girl that I thought was pretty, not in a sexual way, somehow we clicked on a more-then friends level. It was a an intimate emotional relationship. Not sexual as that idea turned me off, but we held hands. The first time we held hands, it felt wrong, clammy and strange, but I embraced the new sensation. I felt like a virgin on the first time. I felt like I just had sex even though we were only holding hands. This was while we were walking down the street, in public but not in blatant public where everyone could see us, we were not doing it for show, it was purely experimentation. Anyway, now that I’ve got your attention, I’ll tell the story!
We met through a mutual friends They were hippie-like people, very free-spirited, and so are we. We were introduced a warm spring day. We played frisbee in the park and went to share frozen yogurt after. We talked and the conversation flowed. It was like we knew each other forever. We talked about intimate secrets, it was so intimate. The conversation clicked and felt very comfortable. Not turned on in a sexual way, but it was like the most comfort, similar to a long standing a deep relationship. The immediate connection made me think at the back of my head about what it would be like to take it to the next level.
She had previously experimented with women, she had a couple of threesomes in her past and I have never even held the hand of another girl before. Of course, this came up in our conversation. It was very suggested that she was interested in more then friends status, just a little simple experimentation. I went along with it. We held hands as we walked and it was like a new found freedom. We hung out together all summer long, it was the greatest time ever.
In the middle of the summer fling, we went to a gay bar in my city. There we danced and even kissed. It was my first girl kiss and it happened on the stage where the DJ spins. Everyone saw, but it was not a big deal to anyone else because after all, it was a gay bar and everyone was kissing. What a neat liberating moment. We never went further then that. We also went our separate ways at the end of summer mainly because she was going to college in another city. We exchanged email addresses and still remain email, friends. We only write emails every month or so. Our lives are very different now.
Our girl - girl relationship was like a beautiful butterfly that came out of it’s cocoon. It blossoms, flies free and then dies shortly thereafter. What an incredible experience of sensuality. Let me tell you that no man can ever replace the freedom of Girl Romance. I would never have sex with a girl, that’s not my style and I am definitely not bisexual or a lesbian, I am completely heterosexual. Takign this in mind, even if you are not a bisexual, lesbian and if you are completely heterosexual like me and if you ever have the chance to walk in the park holding a girl’s hand, by all means, take the chance for unforgettable Girl Romance!
